tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-46249503523819759592024-02-07T21:49:29.418-05:00Alternative HouseAlternative House, founded in 1972, provides support to at-risk children, youth and families through counseling, shelter, crisis intervention and neighborhood outreach. Our programs recognize that families are interdependent and that a crisis or challenge facing one family member affects everyone. We therefore empower children, teens and families to work together and build on their strengths.Alternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.comBlogger84125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-20570453134472070902012-02-23T13:04:00.001-05:002012-02-23T13:05:44.082-05:00Knit One, Pearl TwoThe other day I was walking through the kitchen area in our Emergency Shelter for Teens. One of the boys was doing a macramé project so I stopped to talk with him about it. I mentioned I was learning to knit. He said he always wanted to learn. I happened to have my knitting in the car so I brought it in to show him. He was very interested and asked many questions. That night I told Ann the woman who is teaching me to knit this story. She had mentioned a few weeks earlier that she would be happy to teach the teens to knit. I hadn’t thought there would be any interest on their part. Now there is. Ann is coming to the Shelter on Friday as a volunteer to give Mark his first knitting lesson. I will let you know how it goes. <br /><br />Gina CocomelloAlternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-90429756561887924752012-01-23T14:07:00.001-05:002012-01-23T14:09:43.202-05:00Teen Center Youth Worker<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKOJuigd6Ztvc6sxKkmRY2tkLwMnspEr6yiqFHK0fLiDYKNl6DPVF6WyAQWw8k1AM7DpEf7N-YfsXXtqWbwfGR8Uj9g6GGQJtFNmorOqIfc4U6inMbW_RQtp3jBYjtgL8cjcouk_-5iHwS/s1600/IMG_0448.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKOJuigd6Ztvc6sxKkmRY2tkLwMnspEr6yiqFHK0fLiDYKNl6DPVF6WyAQWw8k1AM7DpEf7N-YfsXXtqWbwfGR8Uj9g6GGQJtFNmorOqIfc4U6inMbW_RQtp3jBYjtgL8cjcouk_-5iHwS/s320/IMG_0448.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5700906683820749010" /></a><br />This is in the words of a young girl who is a Youth Worker from our Culmore Teen Center. <br /><br />“I am 14 years old. I attend JEB Stuart High School and I am in the 9th grade. I come from a family of 6 kids, being the second oldest having a brother who's a year older. When I was 7 I lived in Culmore with four of my siblings and my parents. Most days after school all of us would go to the Alternative House Culmore Safe Youth Project (CSYP) after school program, that was just a few minutes from where I lived. It gave us somewhere to go while my parents worked. It was a difficult time both of my parents worked two jobs: one during the day and one during night. When I was in the 4th grade my mom was pregnant with twin baby boys which made it hard for her to work her second job which was delivering newspapers during night. I may have not been the oldest but I was that figure in my family so in the 4th grade my schedule was to go to sleep at 10:00 pm, wake up at 2:00 am deliver newspapers with my parents, come home around 7:00am and then go to school it was a lot of pressure, but the CSYP helped me get away from it all, and to be cared for. When my mom finally gave birth to the twins I was in 5th grade. She left the newborn twins at home for me and my older brother to care for at night while she was working. A few years later we moved out of our one bedroom apartment in Culmore to somewhere a little farther away. About 2 years ago, Alternative House was doing street outreach and they connected with me again. They offered and told me all about the programs available and I joined the Girl World group. I am glad that I was able to connect again, and receive all the support and help that I get from the counselors. A few months ago, I was hired as a youth worker at the Culmore Teen Center. This has given me so much pride and of course it is a great help. It is only for 6 months, but I am learning so much from it! I have many friends that struggle with even worse situations than me; that do not have a safe place to live in and that simply need assistance, and I am so glad that I am able to refer them to the Alternative House. My friends and I still to this day come to all the programs and everything they offer really does mean a lot to us kids, we might not have been born at the top but Alternative House really does help work you there. Thank you for your time.”<br /><br />For 16 years our Community Based Youth Services have served high-risk and culturally diverse youth in their neighborhoods. Neighborhood-based counselors worked with more than 1,000 young people last year. Our mobile outreach van averages 300 contacts with youth each month providing counseling, referrals and survival supplies in an effort to keep youth in school and away from gang activity. <br />The Culmore Teen Center served more than 250 youth this past year. The drop-in center provides a safe place away from gang recruitment in one of the most heavily gang-infested areas in Fairfax. Counselors at the center along with community volunteers, provide homework help, tutoring, and recreation and field trips, counseling and community service projects. The center also provides meals for those who need it. <br /><br />The Safe Youth Project, is an after-school program for 4th, 5th and 6th graders. Our first Safe Youth Project in Culmore was so successful that we were able to open a second program in Annandale. The program provides homework help, tutoring, community service opportunities, computer skills, and recreational opportunities. It was opened after police asked Alternative House if we could work with younger youth. Local gangs have started recruiting children as young as 10. Waiting to provide prevention services beginning in middle school could be too late. The Safe Youth Project has exceeded its enrollment projection of 30 youth at each location and provides neighborhood-based services four days a week.Alternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-9635325924377101092012-01-18T09:57:00.002-05:002012-01-18T09:59:45.897-05:00Host Homes are needed for students<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-D0JfzyXvpqM/TxbeQ_7EahI/AAAAAAAAAIA/zIZAZaBU2pI/s1600/Grad%2BPic%2BHYI%2B2011.jpeg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 235px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-D0JfzyXvpqM/TxbeQ_7EahI/AAAAAAAAAIA/zIZAZaBU2pI/s320/Grad%2BPic%2BHYI%2B2011.jpeg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698986762102401554" /></a><br />Our newest program is the Homeless Youth Initiative helps young people who are homeless, without the support of a parent or guardian and who are still in high school. Last year at the end of the school year there were over 300 young people in this precarious position. In partnership with Fairfax County Public Schools, Alternative House is leading a three-pronged program to provide housing and other supports. We are recruiting Host Homes (similar to hosting a foreign exchange student), providing rent vouchers and have a small transitional living program that can work with four young women. Program participants are 16 to 21 years old and must be completing high school.<br />The Homeless Youth Initiative Host Home program is aimed at providing a stable living situation and environment for homeless or unaccompanied youth who wish to graduate from high school. We find out about these students usually through a referral from their high school (counselor, teacher, friends/community). <br /><br />The students may be immigrants who have come to the United States on their own and are living alone. They may be living in unsuitable conditions (a too crowded home or apartment where they sleep on the floor or in a closet). The students' living conditions may be about to expire (parents have set a deadline for when the student needs to move out, loss of immediate family members or a non-immediate family member who houses the student may be moving away).<br /><br />Being a Host Home entails opening your home to the student. Many Host Homes provide transportation, meals, and general support to an HYI student. However, HYI staff provide significant support to assist with the student should the Host Home desire assistance. The student will have frequent contact with an HYI case manager, therapist and/or housing coordinator. HYI can provide necessities for the student (hygiene supplies, school supplies, clothes, etc.) In addition, most of our HYI students are eligible for food stamps and free or reduced cost health care. <br /><br />If you are interested in becoming a Host Home, please contact Juan Leon through email at juan_leon@thealternativehouse.org or phone (703) 343-3551.Alternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-72109371099680739732012-01-16T13:16:00.002-05:002012-01-16T13:22:42.785-05:00I’m a 17 year old who has problems with my father<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-kO92Jn4P-0I/TxRqTAIkiqI/AAAAAAAAAH0/Oy1d67OdVzU/s1600/say%2Bteen.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 165px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-kO92Jn4P-0I/TxRqTAIkiqI/AAAAAAAAAH0/Oy1d67OdVzU/s320/say%2Bteen.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698296303216528034" /></a><br />Each year, our teen shelter provides support to hundreds of teens, both over the phone and in person. As a staff member, I frequently talk to teens, families, and others who work with teens about the benefits of our program. But I can’t say it nearly as well as someone who is in the program:<br /><br />“My situation is clear and simple. Pretty much I’m a 17 year old who has various problems with my father. We have disagreements over any and everything there is which kind of explains my situation…. <br /><br />I wouldn’t say I’m homeless, but at the same time I would because … going back home with my father is no longer an option, so independence is definitely the key to survival. <br /><br />Since I’ve been here at the Alternative House I’ve been extremely comfortable and I feel as though this was the home and environment I needed to be an even better person than what I’m already am. Even meeting new kids and listening to different stories and situations is definitely cool. The staff here have reached out to me on countless occasions and definitely considered me part of their family. The help received has been absolutely amazing, I feel like the attention is all for me and they pretty much provide you with an extra hand whenever you need it….Alternative House is definitely teen friendly and if you’re having countless problems at home, or if you know home is no longer an option I would recommend A.H. especially if independence is needed throughout your struggles and obstacles A.H. will definitely work.” <br /><br />- Shelter ResidentAlternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-43167638463464503052012-01-09T08:46:00.001-05:002012-01-09T08:49:30.495-05:00Assisting Young Mothers Clients say Thanks<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRvLiyh037cNyMwNUAN4PiZrwQ5hool0gY5_1rBHxYA5LKoxBkoQ_syE2lHJcLoL2JjyvoFmfTEemllu_s-65ZB3RQgMY6PSK1zUJsFZXLSkR87yH8J0rlAnBqI2uPhmpwwCr014m7NPe8/s1600/IMG_0541.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRvLiyh037cNyMwNUAN4PiZrwQ5hool0gY5_1rBHxYA5LKoxBkoQ_syE2lHJcLoL2JjyvoFmfTEemllu_s-65ZB3RQgMY6PSK1zUJsFZXLSkR87yH8J0rlAnBqI2uPhmpwwCr014m7NPe8/s320/IMG_0541.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5695628901083464290" /></a><br />Here are some of the “Thank You’s” AYM would like to extend to our generous holiday donors!<br /><br />To whom this may concern,<br />Thank you for taking the time to go out and dedicate your time for my son and I. Everything came in handy. I am appreciative and grateful for what we received. I was definitely in need of some pajamas in his size. I just wanted to take this time on behalf of everyone and thank all of you. I want to also thank you all for the items I received as well. Thank you, the gifts were beautiful. I couldn’t have asked for more. Thank You. <br /><br />Thank You! We loved our presents, especially the Ravens gear. <br /><br />Thank you for making Christmas for me and my child worth waking up to. Seeing the smile on my daughter’s face was enough to last me the rest of the year. Everything was appreciated and loved. Thank You all<br /><br />To who ever made Christmas this year amazing,<br />To see the see the smile on my daughters face on Christmas morning was something I’ll never forget. The time dedicated by you to provide us with such an unforgettable day for my child is so greatly appreciated. Thank you so much. <br /><br />Dear Generous Stranger, <br />You have helped make my son’s first Christmas so meaningful. All of the clothes fit perfectly and they look great. He was very excited about the construction toy that he received as well. I am extremely thankful for the clothes and bottle rack for my next son. I adore my bath set! Thank you for all my gifts.Alternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-34484742684578967232012-01-05T07:44:00.004-05:002012-01-05T07:51:18.759-05:00Safe Youth Project<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEheldGtASs1ykTCc-2fWV79Vc7GCovZcLRXnZ4p8TLlPdQs7wUVd78hpJC4H0Pp9h69snjRLeJ5c_GyhSQ_hMREKQ8NoiDW495cMH42iQgDAHDg3BUm9O8mbaKsbPIRG1NHKsNU-6x96aKE/s1600/Outreach+boy+at+computer.JPG"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEheldGtASs1ykTCc-2fWV79Vc7GCovZcLRXnZ4p8TLlPdQs7wUVd78hpJC4H0Pp9h69snjRLeJ5c_GyhSQ_hMREKQ8NoiDW495cMH42iQgDAHDg3BUm9O8mbaKsbPIRG1NHKsNU-6x96aKE/s320/Outreach+boy+at+computer.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5694129286866566946" /></a><br />The Alternative House Safe Youth Project, is an after-school program for 4th, 5th and 6th graders. Our first Safe Youth Project in Culmore was so successful that we were able to open a second program in Annandale. The program provides homework help, tutoring, community service opportunities, computer skills, and recreational opportunities. We also provide an after school snack and dinner. It was opened after police asked Alternative House if we could work with younger youth. Local gangs have started recruiting children as young as 10. Waiting to provide prevention services beginning in middle school could be too late. The Safe Youth Project has exceeded its enrollment projection of 30 youth at each location and provides neighborhood-based services four days a week.<br /><br />We have wonderful volunteers who work with the young people in these programs. Larry Fickau (“Mr. Lee”) is one of those volunteers. He works in our Annandale Safe Youth Project. This is what he has to say about his experience volunteering; “For me, the reward of being a volunteer with ASYP is seeing the smile on children’s faces when I teach them how to solve a math problem and, all of a sudden, they understand the method - or how to write a better composition and they find that they can do it!”Alternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-69735323606663347792012-01-02T10:14:00.000-05:002012-01-02T10:17:05.239-05:00New Year’s ResolutionsIt’s that time of year when we make New Year’s resolutions….that we usually don’t keep past a month or so. The locker room at the gym will be crowded until mid-February (or I assume it will be – I won’t be there!), we’ll focus on eating vegetables until that busy night when we break down and order pizza, and we’ll diligently save all our pocket change until we get tired of making rolls of quarters. Then it’s back to the same behavior for 10 ½ months, until January 1st rolls around again and we say “This year, it will be different.” <br />For the young mothers who we support in our AYM housing program, this year is different. They have decided to make changes in their lives that will positively impact them and their children for years to come. And although many of these resolutions can be difficult to stick to, these moms are doing their best. <br />“Lucinda” is focused on finding a higher-paying job that matches the career training she received while living at AYM. Now a graduate of AYM I and living in AYM II with her two children, Lucinda obtained a medical certificate while living at AYM and is intent on building a career in this area. Right now she’s working a job that is not in her field of interest until she finds other employment. She’s caring for two children on her own, saving money when she can, and has a cheerful disposition even when times are tough. <br />“Bridget” is also positive, despite her situation. Having recently given birth to a son, she entered the AYM program after sleeping in her car and living in an emergency shelter for single adults. Since moving into a stable place to live, Bridget has interviewed for jobs, obtained important documents such as a birth certificate and social security card, and saw a medical professional for a physical. Traveling throughout the county on public transportation with a young child, Bridget has a can-do attitude and is looking forward to working full time.<br />Lastly, “Lonnie” is working part-time while attending school and caring for her daughter. She is hoping to begin a career in the medical field after finishing her certificate program and will be graduating AYM in January after 18 months. She has been connected with medical services for her daughter, who has developmental delays due to a genetic disorder, purchased her own car, and has earned high grades in her college classes. She is looking ahead to living independently with the money she has saved while in the AYM program. <br />Kind of inspiring, isn’t it?<br /><br />Meghan HuebnerAlternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-23528315618819992462011-08-19T14:51:00.002-04:002011-08-19T14:54:03.253-04:00Housing Scams are Alive and Thriving in Northern VirginiaAYM clients work toward having a place of their own to call home. Scam artists work toward swindling money from vulnerable people. One weekend, an AYM client contacted staff to ask for $1,600 from her escrow account to cover the deposit and first month’s rent for a house with all utilities were included. She was so excited as she described the house – a fenced in backyard for her children to play, washing machine and dryer in the basement, close to excellent schools! The “owner” had given her a tour of the property earlier that day, but he was leaving the country the next day for six years. He claimed he was looking to provide a needy family with a home, which is why the rent was so inexpensive. All the AYM client had to do was send him a money gram for $1,600 and he would send her the key and rental agreement once he received the money.
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<br />This AYM client had been in the AYM program for over a year, where she made great progress, including completing an employment training program, obtained full-time employment, had a car, and had saved money in preparation for transitioning out of the program. She was ready to live independently. Staff discussed the reality of the situation with the client and emphasized that something that seemed too good to be true probably was. Despite this conversation, the client was ready to go forward because she believed in the "owner." Luckily, staff was able to get in touch with the actual realtor and confirmed that rent was $2,700 a month, not the $800 she had been told. The realtor was aware that someone had posted a fraudulent ad offering the house for rent and was working with the police to apprehend him. The next day, the "owner" called the client five times pressuring her for the money. When she confronted him with the truth, he hung up. She was devastated, but thankful that she had gained valuable life experience without losing $1,600. AYM staff are working with her to locate an affordable living setting, as she is ready for independence.
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<br />Susie Guido, LPC
<br />Residential Therapist
<br />Alternative House Alternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-74834840253075030242011-08-19T10:00:00.001-04:002011-08-19T10:01:52.395-04:00An Intern SharesI have enjoyed my time interning at Alternative House. Before doing my internship here I did not know what to expect from working with kids, since this is was my first time working with teens. I have enjoyed every time I have spent with them. I feel my experience here gave me an opportunity to see another field in psychology since my major is in forensics. I will truly miss the kids and counselors.
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<br />Luisa Suisa
<br />Graduate Student
<br />Argosy UniversityAlternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-90815714590635104602011-08-18T16:59:00.001-04:002011-08-18T17:01:28.632-04:00Shelter Volunteer finds a position on our AYM staffI chose to volunteer at the Alternative House due to the horrible job market and economy when I graduated from James Madison University. I had been a waitress all throughout college and on breaks so that I could pay for college, thus I did not really have that much experience in my field. It sounds cliché to say that my passion is helping people, especially troubled teens, but ever since I was young that is what I knew I wanted to do. I volunteered at the Alternative House for approximately a year and a half. I felt at home almost immediately when I entered AH, the counselors were very upbeat, refreshing and honest. The program at AH, the more I learned about it, was something I was proud to be a part of. About a month ago I was encouraged to move forward with a career, to use my degree and my experience and make a place for myself in the world. I applied for the Program Assistant position in a program under the Alternative House, called Assisting Young Mothers or AYM. The experience and mentoring I received at AH along with my strengths were perfect assets in landing me the PA position. Programs like AH and AYM are a good example of what good people and good hearts can do, and how we can make a difference in people’s lives individually, in the families, and in the community. All of the programs underneath the umbrella of the Alternative House help populations that are so often overlooked, individuals who more often than not fall through the cracks of our society without someone taking so much as glance back. I think that every person can make a difference, some of the greatest leaders and icons of our time have come from troubled backgrounds and obstacle filled pasts; you cannot make it in this world without a little encouragement or a helping hand, which is what I believe AH gives to this vital population in our society. While I was sad to leave the Shelter at the Alternative House, I have found my place in the AYM program and am proud and happy to still be a part of the AH community.
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<br />Angel Cregge
<br />Program Assistant
<br />AYM (Assisting Young Mothers)
<br />Alternative House
<br />Alternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-4219151677322575762011-08-17T08:53:00.001-04:002011-08-17T08:55:46.214-04:00An Alternative to HomelessnessThe first young man who entered our Homeless Youth Initiative has become my “poster child” for telling people about what a difference this program makes in people’s lives.
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<br />“John” was 18 and a junior in high school when his father kicked him out of the house. His Dad had a substance abuse problem and often acted erratically. John went from friend to friend, “couch surfing” until he ran out of friends in late August; just before the start of his senior year. A social worker placed him in a small adult homeless shelter.
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<br />His very first night there John was propositioned by his roommate. The next morning, he fled the shelter and was sleeping in the bleachers of his high school football stadium because that was where he felt safest.
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<br />Alternative House has an emergency shelter for teenagers that provides a safe haven to runaway, homeless and abused young people 13-17-years old, but John was 18. We were able to get a waiver of the rules and brought John in to safety.
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<br />Working with the faith community, we located a woman who would rent a room to John. It was close to his high school, his girlfriend and his job, but John couldn’t make enough money to cover the rent and continue to attend school. Through Alternative House’s Homeless Youth Initiative, we were able to pay $325 a month towards his $500 rent. John paid the rest.
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<br />John stayed in school and graduated on time. He is working full-time as a car salesman and his employers love him. He’s also going to community college. The small investment this community made in John has resulted in a young man with a future versus a homeless high school drop-out. It also means we have a successful citizen not someone in our shelters or jail. Everyone wins here.
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<br />Judith Dittman is executive director of Alternative House, the abused and homeless children’s refuge.
<br />Alternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-91631711534346330092011-08-15T17:39:00.001-04:002011-08-15T17:42:10.097-04:00I know there’s a place I can go and be safe<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgX_wSkO8ow1uCc2mNUTrcrgywhl0rJxvr5uxrUCmypyT7L1xIACqH1uiCbrUjYRKUMRmgsmexfKtVg47FEUcPPhgyPu_8K-99DoXQo5tWVv4yiSXK3DkWkLLHzBAuVseQAkft9Jvsbvza7/s1600/Shelter+Beds.JPG"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgX_wSkO8ow1uCc2mNUTrcrgywhl0rJxvr5uxrUCmypyT7L1xIACqH1uiCbrUjYRKUMRmgsmexfKtVg47FEUcPPhgyPu_8K-99DoXQo5tWVv4yiSXK3DkWkLLHzBAuVseQAkft9Jvsbvza7/s320/Shelter+Beds.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5641201049857956258" /></a>
<br />Alternative House is a really good place to be whenever you’re having problems at home. As soon as I walked in Alternative House, the staff treated me good. Ashley gave me a toothbrush & toothpaste – anything I needed until my mom came by and dropped off my stuff. The staff here is amazing. They’re the nicest people I’ve ever met. They show you they care about you and they discuss topics and answer questions that you have. The counselors help you and I trust them enough to open up and talk about the personal issues at home. They give the best advice and help you work on whatever things you feel you have to work on. Alternative House is one of the best places I have ever been in. I feel safe and now I am going to work on myself. I learned to listen better and whenever I’m angry I will find the best solution and never walk out whenever I get mad or not get what I want. I feel like a better person.
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<br />I am going to truly miss the counselors and the other staff because they’re like my family now. In the little time I’ve been here I can already say all of this. If I ever have a problem at home, I know there’s a place I can go and be safe. There is always room for improvement, nobody is perfect and there are people in the world that care about someone like me. Alternative House helps you solve problems you are facing at home. They make you realize what is important in life. People, such as friends come and go, but family there is only one. Think about the positive things in life and try not to think about the negatives. If you feel like you don’t have anybody there for you or feel alone and are in need of advice they have a 24 hour crisis line. Don’t ever think you are alone in life because you are not. My stay here at Alternative House has been fun and I know if I ever need advice on a personal home situation, they’re here for me. Thank you Alternative House. My stay here has been the best. I’m going to miss you guys a lot and I will visit you guys whenever I can.
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<br />Shelter Resident (age 15)Alternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-70206073009626143732011-08-09T11:13:00.002-04:002011-08-09T11:16:25.278-04:00A Shelter Intern from American UniversityAs an upcoming senior Psychology major at American University,my decision to intern at Alternative House was based on a recommendation from my advisor to get involved in the psychology field hands on. I chose Alternative House because I knew I wanted to work with adolescents and I loved the warm atmosphere I experienced when I first visited the Shelter for my interview. I enjoyed working with every resident that stayed here, and loved the experience of seeing each and every one of our youths grow during their time with us. Additionally, the staff are all very warm and welcoming, allowing me to feel right at home from my very first day. I have learned so much during the few months I have interned here and will carry the knowledge I have gained through this experience as I continue my education and ultimately begin my career path.
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<br />Emily Sherer
<br />Alternative House InternAlternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-7340988145715023862011-08-08T10:19:00.002-04:002011-08-08T10:23:14.220-04:00A Trip to the Zoo by a Shelter Resident<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-d0VT6DzkUrU/Tj_xNFtVVVI/AAAAAAAAAHM/mj0-TNWyXbc/s1600/say%2Bteen.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 165px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-d0VT6DzkUrU/Tj_xNFtVVVI/AAAAAAAAAHM/mj0-TNWyXbc/s320/say%2Bteen.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5638490465664062802" /></a>
<br />Wake up! As one of the staff yells to the fellow residents as the sun is rushing to show. Residents got up and out the door by 7:00 am and headed immediately to a fun adventure at the D.C animal zoo. Everyone tried to stay positive, we had to take a detour because one of our staff members got lost and drove around in circles. While that was going on, one of our residents became car sick and barfed. Staff immediate stopped the car at the nearest sidewalk, and waited for him to finish. Finally back on the road, we were jamming to our radio tunes. We were headed on our way to the zoo determined for no more detours. Arriving at the zoo, we first got breakfast sandwiches. After eating we saw the cheetahs lying still as they soaked up morning sun. Then walking around we saw pandas peeling and eating bamboo. The Lionesses and her cubs playfully fighting were also great. The aged tiger yelling helplessly at his audience, great to see how a tiger calls out. The naked mole-rats scattering around looking for breakfast; Armadillos hiding in their little ball scared of all the eyes. Starry eyed owls that often looked lost. Long stretching zebras that stayed near home around family. Lazy bears who weren’t interested in giving us a show. Watching the Gorilla family as the mother’s breast drooped to her knees. Exotic energetic monkeys who kept climbing. Beautiful underwater plants, above ground plants and many more. Residents enjoyed a mix up for group and had fun with the bond they had with Mother Nature.
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<br />16 year old, maleAlternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-74793407378913330252011-08-05T09:15:00.002-04:002011-08-05T09:18:33.344-04:00Young mother needs dental care<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj-dfKkBigtEVHjkbSEVDMc5t7y5BdRKeMI5Zxd8tdg-M03smA3VZnpuNb-IACqUsIkTtoUfHZAa4MAaKuOQwdpu5SQcmCHAQXoUQxAWO0X2yRbf5z4j8BhRqZOWhfvOfsSS2NVb-3i8Zhw/s1600/AYM+mother+and+Child+2.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj-dfKkBigtEVHjkbSEVDMc5t7y5BdRKeMI5Zxd8tdg-M03smA3VZnpuNb-IACqUsIkTtoUfHZAa4MAaKuOQwdpu5SQcmCHAQXoUQxAWO0X2yRbf5z4j8BhRqZOWhfvOfsSS2NVb-3i8Zhw/s320/AYM+mother+and+Child+2.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5637360629675463250" /></a><br />This week I had my teeth cleaned and a cavity filled. Instead of my usual dread of the dentist, I am thankful that I can afford to take care of my teeth. Dental care is a luxury for many people. One of my clients, a young mother in our AYM program, has four impacted wisdom teeth that need to be surgically removed. The wisdom teeth don’t care that she has no dental insurance or funds to pay for this surgery, they are coming in regardless. These four teeth are coming in underneath her molars and one is coming in sideways through her gum line causing extreme pain. Her insurance covers urgent care clinics and emergency rooms that are more than willing to provide pain medication, but if she takes the pain medication then she cannot function at work or take care of her toddler. A local dentist provided x-rays pro-bono and directed me to an area dental clinic that requires a referral from one of four agencies. One agency listed on their website no longer participates in the program. The two others I could get no one to return my calls. Since that initial call two weeks ago, I have talked with eight individuals, two hospitals that offer low-cost dental surgery and two local non-profits that assist with medical issues. Every phone call generated another one – I was passed from person to person, referred to different agencies with no resolution. I am frustrated with the process and can only imagine how clients feel when they are passed on without anyone listening to their dilemma. Alternative House is a referring agency for reduced dental care provided by area oral surgeons; however, 50% of the cost of impacted wisdom teeth surgery is $1,300 – and that was the least expensive provider. Payment plans are not an option. What do people do when there is an issue that requires immediate attention? Right now the only answer I know is to suffer. So far, my efforts have been ineffective, but I will continue to make calls because I do not accept the responses I have received. Society can do better. <br /><br /><br />Susie Guido, LPC <br />Residential Therapist <br />Alternative HouseAlternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-54353613860896787902011-08-04T11:21:00.001-04:002011-08-04T11:22:59.744-04:00From a Shelter Intern<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieuC6Osj9VlfijFWy3Rhm3cEDzt1QEvUczCHUS-yxVmh0PV8VUlbJ5w49V1Q5MXUWKBYFSfh2yjl0bthMaWO4ad5-WRhKvJHxLYcHPNxHd-Ae8sVhJpHmY4cXSSm9ZEOz4qJu-oFw2n-Nm/s1600/House2.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieuC6Osj9VlfijFWy3Rhm3cEDzt1QEvUczCHUS-yxVmh0PV8VUlbJ5w49V1Q5MXUWKBYFSfh2yjl0bthMaWO4ad5-WRhKvJHxLYcHPNxHd-Ae8sVhJpHmY4cXSSm9ZEOz4qJu-oFw2n-Nm/s320/House2.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5637021553944896386" /></a><br />“I thoroughly enjoyed my time working at Alternative House. Before volunteering here I did not know what type of psychology I wanted to go into or even what my different options were. I feel my experience here gave me real insight into the world of counseling and therapy and also gave me a good feel for the type of work that I wish to continue to do in the future. I had a real great experience here, so much so I still plan on volunteering even after my internship has been completed.”<br />Christopher Mishik<br />Shelter Intern<br />George Mason UniversityAlternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-29404209652695948432011-07-14T17:55:00.002-04:002011-07-14T18:00:38.858-04:00Wonderful Volunteer Experience with the Annandale Safe Youth Project (ASYP)<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_Pxao8AuXErRxs3rKPGc5skSJO-8HVCukLsqCkRieDThawq-B8KX5hy85lSmf4KWD3cxEYdhPpLOClTb9lpfHDW-zAJ0ZG2SV4nkcybvt_kubmbRbZjmZWCMbsyVwdLaViCryr9CRQkC6/s1600/DSCN9685.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_Pxao8AuXErRxs3rKPGc5skSJO-8HVCukLsqCkRieDThawq-B8KX5hy85lSmf4KWD3cxEYdhPpLOClTb9lpfHDW-zAJ0ZG2SV4nkcybvt_kubmbRbZjmZWCMbsyVwdLaViCryr9CRQkC6/s320/DSCN9685.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5629331151843437394" /></a><br />It has been my privilege to be an ASYP volunteer throughout the past two years. I enjoy working with young students and helping them realize that learning and school can be fun. So often, elementary school children think that school is not a happy place, subjects are too difficult, and reading is boring. <br /> <br />As a substitute teacher in the Alexandria school system and a volunteer in the ASYP program, I frequently find that students don’t understand the material they are studying, struggle with their homework, and need extra help to complete their assignments. <br />For me, the reward of being a volunteer with ASYP is seeing the smile on children’s faces when I teach them how to solve a math problem and, all of a sudden, they understand the method – or how to write a better composition and they find that they can do it!<br /> <br />It is important to help students strengthen their self-esteem and trust their abilities and help them see that, with discipline and perseverance, they can achieve their goals.<br />This past year, we have had an exceptional group of students. They were a real joy to be around, willing to learn and to study. They were respectful and followed directions. The kids got along with each other and the staff.<br /> <br />I have the utmost respect for the director of the program, Antonia Arias, and the assistant director, Jade Leedham. <br /><br />Larry L. Fickau (“Mr. Lee”)Alternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-76143913878816547802011-06-21T14:43:00.001-04:002011-06-21T14:46:36.859-04:00A Grateful Intern Shares Her StoryThree weeks into my new job, I am so grateful for the experiences I had at Alternative House as an intern. I graduated in May with a Masters of Clinical Mental Health Counseling from George Washington University, and I was one of the few people in my program who had a great job lined up. At Alternative House, I had the opportunity to interact with key community agencies in Northern Virginia, such as Child Protective Services, Foster Care, and the Juvenile Court system, and this gave me an advantage when interviewing for positions in government counseling agencies. Additionally, I had the freedom to explore and develop new aspects of counseling, like bilingual counseling, that set me apart from the other applicants. Though interning in a crisis residential facility can be stressful, I would not trade the experience for any other. <br /><br />An element that makes Alternative House so unique is the diversity of the teens. Teens from all backgrounds live together, and they feel safe to explore their differences and similarities. The staff at Alternative House facilitates respectful conversations about controversial topics, such as race and religion, that adults typically shy away from because they can be uncomfortable. The teens appreciate being able to ask questions of one another, and hopefully these teens will be leaders who help us as a society to come together despite our differences.<br /><br />The most inspiring moment of my internship took place just before bedtime. Two boys were sharing a bedroom, one Muslim and one Christian. The Christian boy returned from the shower to find his roommate saying his prayers. He waited respectfully outside the bedroom door until his roommate had finished praying. The Muslim boy looked up when he had finished and invited him in. The Christian boy said, “Hey man, I didn’t know you were Muslim. I don’t really know anything about it. Can I ask you some questions?” And the Muslim boy responded, “Ask anything you want.” The two sat down and began discussing religion. It was a beautiful moment. I hope the experience sticks with them, and I hope that the staff at Alternative House continues to make it a safe place for kids to ask questions and openly discuss important themes. <br /><br />Cynthia Baleskie<br /><br />--Alternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-50106234371520317642011-06-20T16:46:00.002-04:002011-06-20T16:50:53.760-04:00Culmore Graduation Celebration<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-yNkwq_AGwV0/Tf-yfqTBqqI/AAAAAAAAAGs/HQ6VQuyqb4Q/s1600/DSCN9750.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-yNkwq_AGwV0/Tf-yfqTBqqI/AAAAAAAAAGs/HQ6VQuyqb4Q/s320/DSCN9750.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5620407116981447330" /></a><br />What a great week we had last week. Monday started with the graduation celebration for the young people at the Annandale Safe Youth Project. Wednesday found us celebrating with the youth in Culmore. We had a joint program with the 4th, 5th and 6th graders from the Safe Youth Project and the teens at the Culmore Teen Center. The Teen Center was packed! Everyone had a great time receiving certificates of recognition for their outstanding achievements presented by our Board Member Julie Pangalinen. Alternative House Board Member Rick Holzheimer also joined us as did two members of the Bailey’s Crossroads Rotary Club, William Cook and Karey Starnes. The Baliey’s Rotary has been a long-time supporter of our programs in Culmore and it was great to see them at the celebration. The Teen Center was freshly painted by volunteers from Convergint Technologies and was perfect for the occasion. We heard poems and viewed artwork of the students and then had a great meal of Lasagne and salad prepared by the women from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in McLean. A special graduation cake finished off the event and was promptly “finished off“ by the many hungry young people in attendance! <br /><br />One of the most memorable things for me that evening was the opportunity to talk with one of the graduating teens. This young woman’s family is originally from Pakistan. In addition to going to school and working at the Teen Center as a Youth Worker, she has been caring for her mother who is ill. When I spoke to her about what lay ahead after graduation, she told me she would be spending two years at Community College and then planned to transfer to either Virginia Tech or VCU to study medicine. Her ultimate goal is to open a clinic where homeless people can receive medical care free of charge. She is such a determined and focused young woman that I am looking forward to attending the grand opening of her clinic. I’m sure she’ll succeed.<br /><br />Judith DittmanAlternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-29034773864371872022011-06-15T15:10:00.000-04:002011-06-15T15:12:00.280-04:00Homeless Youth Initiative GraduationThe Homeless Youth Initiative (HYI) is celebrating the end of the school year and the high school graduation of all 13 of our seniors. We could not be more proud that the program will have a 100% graduation rate this school year. High school graduation is a major accomplishment for any teenager, but particularly so for our clients who have had to pursue their education without the support of a parent or guardian. These students have not had the benefit of a parent to wake them up in the morning and ensure they go to school, a parent to drive them to school when they inevitably wake up late, or a parent to remind then that it is time to get off the computer in the evening and focus on their homework. These students have been able to find the internal drive and motivation to complete their academic course load and graduate with a high school diploma. The majority of these students are employed and living independently. Many of them support themselves financially and balance the real life challenges of being an adult, with the demands of being a high school student. Our graduates this year come from all three portions of our program: our group home, host homes and our rent voucher program. It is truly incredible for us as a staff to reflect on all these young people have accomplished, despite the turmoil and many transitions they have experienced. It has been our honor to support these students, celebrate their accomplishments and provide the occasional “tough love” moments that they have needed along the way. <br />Many of our seniors have elected to pursue a college education in the fall. We have five students going away to 4 year universities, three who plan to attend NOVA, one student who is enrolled in a full time nursing program and other students who continue to explore their options such as certificate programs, the military and AmeriCorps. We wish them continued success in all their endeavors!<br /><br />Kristin SorensonAlternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-57331573149660239172011-06-14T13:39:00.002-04:002011-06-14T13:42:36.016-04:00What Great Kids!<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-DnxtJVGX_wg/TfedSeEDP6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/cINslIz3NiI/s1600/ASYP%2BSharon%2BBulova.JPG"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-DnxtJVGX_wg/TfedSeEDP6I/AAAAAAAAAGk/cINslIz3NiI/s320/ASYP%2BSharon%2BBulova.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5618132000801243042" /></a><br />What great kids! The Annandale Safe Youth Project had its graduation celebration last night and it was a blast. We had some special visitors from the community including the Fairfax County Board of Supervisors Chairman, Sharon Bulova, Alternative House Board Member, Mike Policicchio, Fairfax Partnership for Youth Board Member Frank Blechman and folks from Association Management Group, St. Barnabas’ Episcopalian Church and John Calvin Presbyterian Church. But the stars of the show were the kids. Their enthusiasm just lit up the room. These are children who are facing some big challenges in their lives. They come from families where there isn’t a lot of money and many of them are struggling in school. But this year they all made big gains in academics and you could see they supported each other. We were treated to impromptu song and dance and spontaneous cheers for summer from the young people and great food was provided by Vienna Presbyterian Church and John Calvin Presbyterian Church. It was also wonderful to see the support from St. Barnabas Episcopal Church. The program is located at the church and members of the congregation volunteer to help provide activities for the young people. The Rector, Assistant Rector and lots of program volunteers joined the party to wish our young people well. Wednesday we’re going to have another celebration in our Culmore Safe Youth Project and Culmore Teen Center. I can’t wait!<br /><br />Judith DittmanAlternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-45357703437518296892011-05-10T13:29:00.002-04:002011-05-10T13:32:27.347-04:00College Scholarship for HYI ClientOn Wednesday, May 18, at 7:00 pm an awards ceremony will be held at the Vienna Community Center. The Vienna Womens Club is awarding 3 special young ladies with a $1000 scholarship to a college of their choice. One of these young ladies is Jania, a client of The Alternative Houses newest program Homeless Youth Initiative.<br />Jania came to our program in early 2010. Although she was surrounded by family, her pervious living situation included living under very restrictive rules and guidelines that would seem unfair to most people. Because her mother could not afford to move away from those family members and into her own home, Jania continued to live in the restrictive environment until her counselor referred her to Homeless Youth Initiative.<br />While residing in the HYI group home Jania completed her junior year of high school and started preparing to attend college. Now a senior Jania looks forward to being a high school graduate and starting college at Northern Virginia Community College in the fall to obtain her Associates Degree. She plans to major in Business Administration and then transfer to a four year institution to complete her Bachelors Degree. <br />A scholarship from the Vienna Womens Club will bring her one step closer to her goal. Jania is very excited to be a recipient of this scholarship. She worked very hard on her application and essay submission and is proud to see all of her hard work pay off. We at HYI are very proud of Jania as well and know she will continue to be successful in her future endeavors. <br /><br />Gege Latef<br />Program Coordinator<br />Homeless Youth InitiativeAlternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-20597512821078051862011-04-26T04:59:00.003-04:002011-04-26T05:03:50.894-04:00Young Mothers need Yoga supplies for classIt is no secret that mothers rarely get the opportunity to take time for themselves – to charge their ever drained batteries. Yet, women are consistently reminded of how important it is to our health and relationships to take time for themselves and reduce stress. Articles are written about it in our favorite magazines and local newspapers; there are featured stories about it on our favorite talk shows and news programs. And everyone serves up their own tips and suggestions for busy moms to squeeze in that sacred personal time. Some mothers heed the warnings and sign up for an exercise class or women’s club while their child stays home with the child’s father or babysitter. But a low income single mother cannot afford the extra childcare costs outside of her work hours any more than she can pay for a fitness class. What can be done?<br /><br />This is the question that Assisting Young Mothers (AYM) staff have been challenged with as they assist young mothers move towards independence. Staff focused their attention toward exercise related activities in early 2011 and explored realistic opportunities for the residents. While AYM staff searched for a long-term solution, they personally volunteered to exercise with residents while volunteers provided childcare. In mid April, Alternative House was approached by a yoga enthusiast who wished to share her passion with teenagers. AYM staff welcomed this opportunity. AYM will host monthly yoga sessions for their residents which will focus on stretching, poses, mediation, and stress relief. AYM residents who are pregnant will also be able to participate, doing modified positions and poses. <br /><br />The first yoga class is scheduled for May 23, 2011. Before we begin, AYM needs to obtain 6 yoga mats to provide the grip and stickiness needed for the exercises. Residents would also benefit from 6 yoga straps and 6 yoga blocks, which help users build flexibility and assist with challenging poses. AYM will be happy to accept any new or used mats, straps, or blocks. <br />The physical, mental, and spiritual benefits of yoga are well documented. AYM hopes that our residents will experience increased patience and model positive coping mechanisms for their children as a direct result of participating in the yoga program. <br /><br />Autumn GriggAlternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-44832803926868243462011-04-21T11:39:00.000-04:002011-04-21T11:41:06.123-04:00Shelter Intern works on the HotlineAs a senior Psychology major at George Mason University, I enrolled in a service-learning course, a class that combines community service with academic instruction as it focuses on critical, reflective thinking and civic responsibility. As a student in a service-learning course, the experience is intended to focus organized community service that addresses local needs, while developing my academic skills, sense of civic responsibility, and commitment to the community. After graduation in May, I plan to pursue a graduate program in Clinical Psychology. With this goal in mind, hands-on, relevant internships are a difficult find, but working here at Alternative House has given me more learning opportunities and experiences than I could have imagined!<br />I chose the Alternative House for a multitude of reasons, including the chance to work with a different population of youth than I had previously. In addition to simply observing the on-goings at a residential facility, this internship has allowed me to assist the primary counselors run group education discussions. One of my favorite experiences, facilitating “Group” ties directly to my course work at school in my Therapeutic Communication, Group Psychotherapy, and Counseling Psychology classes. <br />A unique aspect of working at AH has been the Hotline process- both training for and documenting. The 24-hour crisis line is not a service that all facilities provide, therefore it has been an added beneficial experience to learn and become comfortable with. Not only does it enhance my skills that can be used in the future for one-on-one counseling, but it exposes me to one more aspect of this extensive field. <br />The hands-on training and experience has helped me to begin narrowing down my desired career concentration. Furthermore, I have learned a great deal from simply interacting with both the youth and the staff. The opportunity to ask practiced-staff questions about their jobs, practices, and experiences has been invaluable and I couldn’t have asked for a better experience. In fact, since my internship course ended in early December, I have continued to volunteer twice a week!<br /><br />Teal Dye<br />George Mason UniversityAlternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4624950352381975959.post-81825627093441356862011-04-18T15:25:00.000-04:002011-04-18T15:28:05.035-04:00A Shelter Intern SharesAs a senior Social Work major at George Mason University, interning at the Alternative House as fulfilled my graduation requirement of a 450 hour field-placement. More importantly than allowing me to graduate it has provided me with knowledge and insight into working with adolescents. Prior to this experience I wasn’t sure of the population I wanted to begin my career working with. After being given the opportunity to learn and grow at Alternative House I have cemented that this is a population I want to continue working with. In my 8 months here so far, I have had the opportunity to work on specific field-competencies, including: practice in ethics, diversity, and values research and application. I work closely with the residents, which enables me to also work on my communication and assertiveness skills. Besides the knowledge I have gained from the interactions with residents I have also learned great amounts from the wonderful staff here. They were all very willing to help, patient with me from the start, and overall a positive part of my experience thus far. I am very grateful to have had this opportunity here at Alternative House and the opportunities it has given me to broaden my horizons and pave a path for my future career goals. <br /><br />Lindsay Schwartz<br />Alternative House InternAlternative Househttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15957812035971870418noreply@blogger.com1